“We hurt the ones we love because we can” is a cliche, though perhaps I should be attributing it to a specific writer. Its truth is something that I find extends beyond our close familial, platonic, and romantic relationships. The mechanism behind misdirected aggression is simple: we are exposed to a source of stress that we are unable to affect, and the innocent bystanders most proximate to us become collateral damage specifically because we can affect them. The anger inside us needs to go somewhere and, in a parable of true irony, your mutual affection becomes the channel through which you express anger and frustration that has nothing to do with them.
There are a lot economists, writers, pundits, public intellectuals whose work I consume. Often I agree, sometimes I don’t, but I keep reading them because I consistently learn from them. Lately I’ve found myself becoming more frustrated with a greater share of their writing, often because they’re not being hard enough on the Trump administration, attempts to dismantle core insitutions, or the indiscriminate cruelty behind the rampant incompetence. I want them to be meaner and angrier and more direct. I want them to have an affect that I can’t. To be clear, I’ve attributed more power and influence to them than they actually have, but I think that’s not the real problem.
The real problem is that I know that no one in the Trump administration cares that they are cruel or incompetent. You can, at best, embarrass these people briefly, but you can’t shame them. They only internalize consequences and they’ve yet to experience any. They have coalesced around the singular belief that has served as the North Star for Trump’s entire life: there are no rules. Rules are fake. An illusion. A mass delusion. There are no rules and you can do whatever you want in the moment that serves your ambitions and ego and then move on to the next thing.
What do you do when your entire mechanism for affecting and contributing to world is the written word, criticism, the speaking of evidence-based truth to power and that power doesn’t care? What I find myself tempted to do, and what a lot commentators our there (especially on bluesky) are doing, is attacking the people who might and do actually listen with an undeserved fury. The criticism is often valid, but it’s just 30% meaner than it needs to be. More personal. More cruel.
I care about AI. I care about energy subsidies. I care about crime and education and health. But, if I’m being honest, there are times every day when I don’t. I’m a professor, I care about and contribute to bleeding edge research, but the moment we are living through isn’t about PhD level questions. These are 5th grade social studies times. Democracy. Rule of law. Citizenship. All men are created equal. Basic human dignity. That’s the reality and it’s not hyperbole.
I hope everyone will keep doing their research and commentary about the nitty gritty of day to day science. I also hope that everyone will take the time to grant just a bit more space emphasizing the basics, to leave no doubt about where they stand. Becaue no matter how someone might identify politically, in this moment it’s mostly irrelevant. Liberal, conservative, libertarian, classical liberal, neoliberal, new liberal, social democrat. The differences are trivialities. There are only two groups that matter: those who want to keep the basic institutions intact and those that want to burn it to ground. That’s it.
So just keep that in mind when you’re mad about someone online, about what they wrote, what you think they believe. Are they trying to hold the world together while bandits are stripping the walls for copper and carving out chunks of marble from every load-bearing pillar? If the answer is yes then they deserve grace. I’m trying and I hope you’ll do the same for me.